"[...] I wish Pride could be something closer to Publishers Clearing House, where someone shows up at the door of a closeted teen living in some oppressive Middle American state with an oversized check and whisks them away." Read More
"I feel like my life is totally constructed by jobs: the freelance ones that pay the bills, the 'literary' ones that don’t really pay but that I feel hold me together." Read More
"My therapist reminds me, 'If it can’t be fixed, death can heal it.' Meaning, endings are not inherently or only traumatic. Some things are just a letting go, or a putting down of a burden that isn’t working..." Read More
"This is how I want to rock shows—with amazing support, collaborating with people in the cities I’m visiting who are making magic and getting to share it with new folks [...]" Read More
“Through fiction we are often trying to solve—or at least somehow address—the problems and contradictions that preoccupy us in real life. In crafting a novel about compulsive gambling and fetishistic sex, that’s definitely what I’m doing.” Read More
"The Black Party was pretty great—a big space with machine-generated fog and deep house music, filled with all sorts of men, including many beautiful ones, wearing very little clothing, dancing, having sex, taking drugs (of which we did not partake), etc." Read More
"I have to give myself permission to turn my brain off and relax when I can, which usually translates to me eating gummy bears and re-watching Buffy episodes while live-tweeting about the outfits." Read More