"Primarily, I wanted to see if I could write a book in which issues of love, erotics, desire, and sex could be momentarily liberated from conventional categorizations of gender identity." Read More
"I chose to write about publishing because it's the world I know best, and because I wanted to leave a record of a way of working that really is gone now." Read More
"I think the reality of hip hop is that women and queer people and a lot of folks who we think about being in the margins have always been at the center of the culture." Read More
"Cruising and gay sex don’t really need brick-and-mortar institutions anymore. You can cruise anywhere, anytime, with the phone you already have in your pocket, for free. So basically, the world is your bathhouse now." Read More
"On one level, I tried to do something I hadn’t done before, which was use the book as a holding container for sentiments of love and happiness [...]" Read More