"Primarily, I wanted to see if I could write a book in which issues of love, erotics, desire, and sex could be momentarily liberated from conventional categorizations of gender identity." Read More
"For me, I’m less interested in things that reflect the world and the familiar literature that I already know. I want things to take me into new zones." Read More
"I chose to write about publishing because it's the world I know best, and because I wanted to leave a record of a way of working that really is gone now." Read More
"I think the reality of hip hop is that women and queer people and a lot of folks who we think about being in the margins have always been at the center of the culture." Read More
"Cruising and gay sex don’t really need brick-and-mortar institutions anymore. You can cruise anywhere, anytime, with the phone you already have in your pocket, for free. So basically, the world is your bathhouse now." Read More
“I'm an inveterate wanderer and snoop [....] Whether I'm on a bike or in a car, I stick my nose in places that most people avoid just to see what curiosities they hold, especially at night.” Read More
"What I believe in is forgetting; it’s transformative, if not reformative, power. What does it mean to truly leave something behind? To excise a happening from not only your thoughts, but also from your body?" Read More